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My Ex Will Not Let Me See My Child

What to prepare if child contact has stopped or child arrangements need urgent review.

England and WalesGeneral informationReviewed 2026

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Child contact problems depend on existing orders, safeguarding concerns, the child arrangements history and what outcome is realistic for the child.

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Start with these

Write down the key dates
Save the relevant documents
Note any deadline
Explain what outcome you want

Check Whether There Is An Existing Order

If there is a child arrangements order, find the latest sealed copy and any later variation or enforcement papers.

  • current order
  • missed contact dates
  • messages about contact
  • school or safeguarding documents

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Author
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Editorial board
Legal4U Family and Children Editorial Board
Reviewer
Legal4U Family and Children Editorial Board. Family-law solicitor, barrister or regulated family specialist review required before publication as legal guidance.
Jurisdiction
England and Wales
Date published
18 July 2026
Date last reviewed
16 July 2026
Regulatory status
Legal4U is a legal enquiry intake and professional matching platform, not a law firm.
Sources
  • Looking after children if you divorce or separate GOV.UK. Checked 17 July 2026.
  • Types of court order about children GOV.UK. Checked 17 July 2026.
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